New updated edition 2023. Dr. Lyn Kelley explains what a relationship commitment-phobic (CP) is and how one can be cured, or at least become committable. If there is any way to do it, this is the way! Lyn has over 20 years experience counseling and coaching couples, researching this topic, as well as her own experience and observing those of her friends. Lyn uses bold, honest, straight talk and tells it like it is.Chapter One: What is Commitment Phobia?Normal vs Irrational FearHow Severe is His Case?Lead With Your HeadHow to Use Your "Chi"Ambivalence and InconsistencyChapter Two: How to Spot a Commitment Phobic Right AwayGet InformationFind Out What He ValuesDon't Take It PersonallyBe the Selector34 Red FlagsChapter Three: Can Commitment Phobics be Cured?How Good Jane Handles a CPMen Are Like FishChapter Four: How to Secure a Commitment From a Commitment PhobicThe 5 Keys to Securing a Commitment From a CPLearn His GameDon't Give Away Your Jewels for FreeStop Paying Men to Have Sex With YouDon't Be a Love-Sick Crack AddictDon't Be the Dead Deer on the DoorstepChapter Five: How Your Five Guiding Forces Will Always Serve You WellAlways Lead With Your HeadHow Your "Gut Instincts" Serve YouHow Your "Chi" Serves YouHow Your "Heart" Serves YouHow Your "Chemistry" Serves YouHow to Move On If He Can't CommitThe 10 Commandments with CP's
