Building on the power of first impressions, Nicholas Boothman shows how to find and meet the love of your life-and have that person fall in love with you-in a mere 90 minutes, or approximately the time it takes to have a first dinner date. This follow-up to his bestselling How to Make Someone Like You in 90 Seconds or Less is updated throughout with information on Internet dating, bringing together all of Mr. Boothman's considerable interpersonal skills to the problem of finding lasting love, fast.
And it works: The feedback Boothman has received from a number of his clients begins, "Please come to my wedding.... " Starting with a series of revealing self-assessment tests that show how to find your Matched Opposite (a person who makes you feel complete), here is how to make a fabulous first impression, with tips on everything from attitude to accessories; how to be charming, not alarming; introductions, opening lines, and the 1-2-3 mantra of never hesitating. There are techniques for starting and maintaining conversation and for finding "Me Too" moments, plus the importance of flirting, incidental touching, rules of self-disclosure, and more. Real-life examples and analyses of actual conversations show the method at work.
We all know love at first sight is real. The genius of Nicholas Boothman is to understand how and why it works, and to teach you how to harness its power.
He shows how to recognize and attract your matched opposite-the person who will complete you-and then quickly nurture feelings of love. At the core of this simple, valuable book-now completely updated to fully address online dating-are dozens of simple verbal and nonverbal communication techniques to help you kindle the romance and accelerate intimacy. That's why his mail from readers so often begins, "Please come to my wedding."
