Listening & Learning With Hari

The roles we learn in childhood don't disappear-they wait in the dark. They slip into our boardrooms, our relationships, and the quiet moments when we're trying not to fall apart. In Psychology I Trust: Boundaries & Healing drags these hidden identities into the light-Caregiver, Peacekeeper, Invisible Child-and shows how they grow into the silent forces steering our adult choices, shaping our relationships, and defining our worth long before we realize what's happening.Hari G. Darcy traces these roles from their earliest origins in survival to the way they tighten their grip in adulthood. What begins as "helping" or "keeping the peace" mutates into inherited efficiency-a relentless instinct to fix, manage, and carry everyone else's weight until exhaustion feels like a personality trait. Darcy reveals how over-functioning becomes a trap disguised as strength, pulling people into cycles they never consciously chose and can't seem to escape.Through gripping personal stories and sharp psychological insight, she exposes the machinery behind emotional labor, guilt, and the quiet self-erasure that so many learn to call "normal." Drawing from developmental psychology, trauma theory, and lived experience, Darcy offers tools for nervous system regulation, a seven-stage model for rebuilding trust, and a path back to a self that was never broken-only buried under responsibility.This collection is a lifeline for anyone who has spent years being "the reliable one," the steady anchor in every storm, even when it costs them their identity. It challenges readers to confront the beliefs they inherited, break the patterns that keep them small, and finally step into a life shaped by their own decisions. Hari G. Darcy is a multidimensional storyteller whose work bridges imagination, emotional insight, and cultural authenticity. As a stay-at-home mother and financial specialist, she brings lived experience and empathy to every narrative she crafts. Currently pursuing a Bachelor of Science in Psychology with a concentration in Media and Technology at the University of Phoenix, Hari draws from both her academic studies and personal journey to explore how people think, feel, and connect in a world shaped by innovation and introspection. Hari's portfolio features educational sci-fi for young readers, horror shorts, YA romance, and thoughtful personal essays. Hari brings a fresh perspective to African American storytelling, highlighting creativity, individuality, and emotional freedom over stereotypes or expected themes. With her signature mix of imaginative storytelling and reflective journaling, she creates stories that let readers escape into new worlds while connecting with the person behind the words. An in-text version of Hari's popular podcast-Listening & Learning with Hari. Listening & Learning with Hari covers intuitive topics and unspoken conversations surrounding different psychological and emotional perspectives while living life. Think of it as an ongoing conversation or a detailed view on what psychology means to us-as people-and how we can move differently in life.